We all know how much time and effort goes into planning a wedding; everything down to the tiniest detail like what colour the tissue box is in the ladies toilet! But we also know, some brides-to-be can take things a little step closer to crazy.
Some brides find themselves caught between opposing pressures like wanting the day to be perfect but also having to deal with the financial reality, not to mention your mum or in-laws giving their opinions on how a wedding should be. Psychologically, this can sometimes lead to stress (which we are in no way undermining!), but what is interesting is that fine line between the bride and the ‘zilla.
Here we have created a simple test to find out how close you really are to “bridezilla territory”!
Do you struggle with being assertive? Sometimes we can misinterpret assertiveness with meanness and can fall into the trap of being a pushover. The main thing to remember is: knowing your own mind is a blessing and the ability to speak up for what you believe in will stand to you in good stead. Trust that you have loving people around you who only wants to see you truly happy.
Things seem to fall into place at the right time for you and if they don’t, it wasn’t meant to be. The advantage of having a positive mindset whilst planning a wedding means that everyone will actually enjoy the process! Of course, there will be times when stresses may arise but if you concentrate on the reason you are getting married in the first place, everything should be just fine.
It’s your way, or the highway! Ever since you were little you have dreamt of the perfect wedding. It can be difficult communicating your vision when you feel so emotional about the topic (and let’s face it, a girls wedding is a pretty major topic!). Although it’s hard, try to understand how high expectations can lead to disappointments in the long run. No one is perfect and if they were, life would be pretty boring, eh? So, enjoy the reason for the season and check out our premium list of vendors, who will help you celebrate your day of love!
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